I’m Not Perfect

Honesty seems to be the theme of the week. Molly over at Knocked Up Knocked Over has inspired me to share my own less-than-perfect image with my own readers.

Do you sometimes wish that every blog you read and drool over has a post titled “I’m Not Perfect”? I do. I’m a “blog stalker,” meaning I love finding beautiful new blogs with interesting content, beautiful pictures, or creative ideas. The blogs that draw me in tend to focus on motherhood, cooking, fun things to do with kids, or living a Christ-centered life. I look for encouragement, inspiration, ideas, and meals. Continue reading

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Better Day, Movie Viewing Party

Today was MUCH better! Little was really well behaved and very sweet, and I woke up with a lot more patience. Maybe it was the weather, I don’t know. We’ve been in a SEVERE drought {as in worst in Texas history} and today was mostly overcast all day. I love cloudy days more than any other kind of day. That perked me up.

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What a Week

…Whew. Ever have one of those weeks that you wish you’d had a forewarning about? Maybe a little disclaimer on Sunday would have been helpful. Something like, “Kat, this is future Kat. This week is really going to suck. If you’d like to, you can just lock yourself in your room and not come out again until next Sunday. Your choice.” Continue reading

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Simplify Your Life: Ditch the Paper Towels

I’ve been reading about families who choose to completely go paperless for a while now. Our society depends very heavily on paper products. From an ecological standpoint, the statistics regarding paper usage are staggering:

Statistics provided by the Environmental Protection Agency website.

-Americans use 25% of the world’s paper products.

-The average American uses 748 pounds of paper each year.

-Only 45% of paper is recycled in the U.S.

-An estimated 2.5 million paper towels are thrown away every year, although this number could not actually be traced to hard core facts because there’s no way of knowing the actual projection. My guess? This number is actually much bigger.

From an economical standpoint, the price of paper towels purchased over a year or decade is shocking. If the average family spends $10-12 a month on paper towels, that’s at least $120 a year. My family could use $120. For some it’s pocket change, but for us, we strive to live outside of the consumer-driven bubble that drives this country. For a simple and natural family, common goals include saving money, providing nutritional real foods for our kids, seeking quality medical care, and valuing our faith and time together above all else. You save where you can to teach yourself and your children the frivolity in consumerism and the value of hard-earned money. And the side product is a greener household and discovering the value in people rather than things along the way.

I stated earlier that I had read about families who cut out paper towels entirely with no second thought. I didn’t mention my idea to Travis because to be honest, I thought about all of the non-cleaning uses of the paper towel and was convinced we couldn’t survive without them!

After cooking bacon, I lay it out on a paper towel to drain any grease. We used paper towels as napkins. For super yucky messes like when the cat inevitably gets sick on the carpet, who doesn’t love the ease of a quick paper towel swipe that can then be tossed in the trash? I wasn’t convinced I could live without these conveniences! But then last month, Travis had the idea. “What if we stopped buying paper towels? Just never bought another one?” Panic crossed my face. But my bacon sopping! The cat puke!

Then he said the words that are guaranteed to grab my attention: “It’ll save us a little bit of money every month…” Hmmm…yes. Yes it will…

So at the beginning of the month, instead of buying several packages of paper towels like I would normally purchase, we bought two packs of dish towels. One was just basic terry cloth hand towels, another a package of thinner tea towels. $6 for all the towels. Money saved already. There were a dozen terry cloth towels and 4 tea towels. {For an even more budget-friendly idea, you can cut rags up from old towels hiding in the linen closet.} We also bought a small trash can with a revolving lid to easily drop the dirty towels and rags right in there and carry the can to the laundry when it was full.

Honestly? I was skeptical. We tend to get lazy with such ideas. On paper, they look great. In reality? They fall victim to our busyness and lack of familiarity with “the system.” However, I can proudly say this one is a winner in our house! Next month when I do my grocery shopping, I’ll pick up one more package of the terry cloth towels and the tea towels and we should be set.

When I made bacon last week for a casserole, I laid it out to drain and dry on a tea towel. Didn’t even think twice about it. When the cat got sick yesterday {because that’s what cats do} I didn’t remotely miss my paper towels. The grossness always soaked through them anyway and got my hands sinfully soiled. Ick.

We’ve transitioned into our new no-paper kitchen very nicely. Little loves tossing the used rags into the bin at the end of the day, and the convenience of carrying the entire bin into the laundry room when it gets full is too easy to describe. We pull a fresh rag out in the morning that we use to wipe up counters and the table and then we pull more rags as we need them for various purposes throughout the day. We use larger dish towels for hand drying. Because we have a nice little stash of rags {that will soon be added to} I’ve yet to be without one when I need one.

And the napkins? We use the beautiful linen napkins that were given to us as wedding gifts that usually only see the outside of the drawer at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Why not use your good stuff now? It’s just stuff. You can’t take it with you anyway.

I would like to challenge my readers to do something different in the upcoming month. Change something about your life, even if its something as small as your paper towel use. You might surprise yourself. You never know the value of one tiny difference until you try it.

Kat

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Simplify Your Life: Save Money by Freezing Fresh Foods

I have been studying the Proverbs 31 homemaker lately, and one verse stuck in my mind in relation to freezing foods and preparing for future months: “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” Proverbs 31:25. I particularly thought of that second half of the verse, “she can laugh at the days to come,” because she is prepared! So, today’s simplify your life is about preparing your food for the future months (and saving money in the process): Continue reading

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Are All Adoptive Parents Desperate?

I’ve been chewing over the idea of this post for a week or so.

Over on my favorite adoption board, I posted something a week ago about the potential situations we might consider. For instance, we said that we will consider a baby expected to be born with a cleft lip or pallet. We will not consider a baby with Spina Bifida. The list goes on and on regarding what we will and will not consider. Continue reading

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How to Build a Fabulous Adoption Profile Part 2

This is a continuation of yesterday’s post about building the perfect adoptive family profile. I’ll move forward from discussing pictures and get to the text in your profile. People learn in different ways. Some potential birthmoms are going to be drawn in by your captivating photos, while others are going to pour over every word you say, so make sure they both ROCK! Continue reading

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How to Build a Fabulous Adoption Profile Part 1

Stop by and check out the newest activity idea for little ones in Something Together!

Early in the adoption process, part of me looked forward to this step with great anticipation, while another part of me dreaded this part more than others. I LOVE scrapbooking, so I chose to view this just as though I was building a scrapbooking page for my own pleasure. Continue reading

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World Breastfeeding Week: Nursing the Adopted Baby

This Sunday, instead of an edition of “Simplify Your Life,” I’ll be speaking on the subject of breastfeeding because this week is World Breastfeeding Week.

I’m tackling a rather controversial topic this morning. Sometimes I think, “Why in the world is the idea of nursing an adopted baby controversial?” Well, for several reasons. Continue reading

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Guess What We Officially Are…

I have to be honest, I sat down about six times over the past two days to try and write a post for World Breastfeeding Week. However, there’s just too much excitement going on in our own lives for me to write about that, and I keep getting distracted. So instead, for a whole series of fantastically written and thought-provoking articles on breastfeeding, please stop by Knocked Up Knocked Over. Molly is a true “Lactavist,” and I admire her encouragement and support for nursing. I’m hoping to write an article soon about breastfeeding the adopted baby, but tonight I was just too distracted and I was about to burst, so I’ll say this instead:

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